Archive for December, 2009

Children and Pets

Monday, December 14th, 2009

Keeping pets can be a great way of giving kids responsibility, as well as offering new opportunities for play, interaction and learning, but it’s important to choose wisely.

 

Take advantage of any information sources you can find. Talk to friends with animals about their experiences and have a look online or in the library for information on the pet you are considering.

 

You also have to ask yourself is my child ready for a pet? Having a pet requires a lot of commitment. It’s not just about having something to cuddle; there is also the responsibility of feeding, cleaning and, in some cases, exercising another living thing. When considering a pet, take into account that a lot of the looking after will be done by the adults, no matter how determined the children. Try not to get tempted by the idea of a pet without realising that most of the practical stuff - cleaning out cages, taking dogs for walks, etc - will be done by you!

 

That said, having to look after a pet even a little is good life training - it teaches children about responsibility and the importance of good nutrition and cleanliness. If you are sure your child will be willing to play some active role in looking after their new pet in the long term then you may find they pick up some good experience along the way.

 

If you want to read more on children and pets, and the other things to think about before you commit, then see the article I have posted on www.mimitoys.ie/playarticles

Family Meal Times

Monday, December 7th, 2009

We all think that every other family has happy relaxed meal times with everyone chatting and laughing and tucking into their food. But the reality is that many of us have a fussy eater in the family - meal times can be stressful and the tea table quickly becomes something to dread rather than enjoy.

 

I think that the most important thing to do is to relax. Of course we all want our children to thrive and it’s hard to see how this can happen if they will only eat a tiny amount of a few foods. But keep reminding yourself that, in general, if your children are not underweight and seem healthy, and they are eating something from each of the food groups, then you shouldn’t worry too much. If they see you getting frazzled, or if you try to force them to eat, this could well make the situation worse.

 

I believe that it is really important to give your child the idea that meal times and good food are to be enjoyed. Help them develop a love of real food and home cooking by getting them involved in simple food preparation, or choosing what’s for tea.

 

Let them discover the pleasure in sitting with their family to enjoy a meal and a good chat, even if it means a few times ignoring the fact that they haven’t finished their food. Once the pressure is off you might find they’ll eat more.

 

If you want to read more on fussy eaters, then see the article I have posted on www.mimitoys.ie/playarticles